Are you still trying to figure out why your girlfriend decided to break up with you when all along you thought everything was going great? Well, that’s life – there are just some things you don’t have control to. If you are still hung up on the relationship and would like to make it work, in this article are 7 killer strategies to get your ex girlfriend back within a month.

How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

1. Let her work on her personal issues first. This is to address two objectives. The 1st would be to encourage yearning. And the secondary would be to give her the chance to figure out what she really thinks and feels about things. In spite of what she’s truly expecting out of the experience, she will begin to miss you within the coming days. After a week, it will be so prominent that she might initiate contacting you herself.

2. Examine the motivations behind the break up. As she puts things into perspective, own up the mistakes you made while in the relationship and know what you could do to make things a lot less complicated the second time around. Again, she must have left clues all the while you guys were still together.

3. Treat her like she matters. If both of you are friendlier to each other, do the best you can to make her see that you consider her very valuable. Talk to her often and ask her about how she’s doing so she’ll know you’re involved. Send her small gifts during the week and take her out on a date come weekend. Remember though, once you start it, you can never stop unless she consents. So if you must push through with this step, make it manageable. You don’t need to be expensive about it.

4. Say sweet things to her. Women love to be appreciated. So get her back by showering her with loving commendations. Let her know that you like the way she looks in a particular outfit or the way she carried herself in a given situation.

5. Let her be herself. A true and welcoming relationship understands and accepts differences. It does not curtail one’s interest for the benefit of another. So if you want to win your ex girlfriend back, free her from fear of disappointing you. Better yet, take part in it when she requests you to. You’re openness, which I bet you didn’t have before, will surely win you plenty of points.

6. Give her a reason to want you bad. Take care of your looks and improve your personality. Get a new haircut. Exercise. Upgrade your wardrobe. And while at it, work on your demeanor so you get rid of that rash style. This will surely make your ex want you back in no time.

7. Don’t ever start the blame game. Holding on to what happened and who did what will leave you feeling bitter about things. Let go. And while the relationship is going, always be patient when she’s being irrational. They can blur the lines at times. But when your girlfriend comes to her senses, she will reward your forbearance generously.